How to get over him!

Have you wondered how to get over someone possibly a male who has left you hurt or feeling cold and disconnected? You have this guy that you've met,you and him hit it off dinner, late night conversation, outings together and finally sex. Suddenly your male counterpart has left you with no call backs or texts like normal. Ladies, I know the first thing you do is start calling him and start 2nd guessing yourself thinking you have done something wrong. Stop that! We women/mothers are strong and love hard when we believe we found that special person. If that guy does not call you back, I say yes, call him a "few" times and let him know you are thinking of him. If you do not get a response well that's your answer he is not thinking or checking his phone for you! It's harsh but it is reality! So, brush your self off and push those feeling aside. It may take a moment for you to forget about him, but he does not have to know that! When you see him again ,and you will, have a non-chalant attitude and be friendly but keep it moving only with a hello and goodbye. Do not give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt or seeing that you miss him. Do other things to keep you occupied in order to help get over him. These things really work I've been there and done it! Hopefully if you trust in me, they will work for you!